Tantric Sex isn't the same as the kind of
loveplay most of us have grown up with. Interested in a comparison between
normal sex and Tantric Sex? Review the following table that summarizes
some of the differences...
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# |
Comparing… |
Normal Sex |
Tantric Sex |
| |
Intention |
The goal of orgasm |
Continuing pleasure |
| |
Focus |
Physical event |
Spiritual meditation |
| |
Energy |
Building & releasing arousal as fast
as possible |
Moving energy up the chakras continuously |
| |
Erogenous Zones |
Genitals |
Awaken whole body |
| |
Expectations |
Performance anxiety, especially for guys |
Respond to impulses in the moment with
the flow |
| |
Progression |
Quick release |
Higher & higher plateaus |
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What Qualities Differ? |
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| |
Time |
10 to 15 minutes |
Virtually unlimited |
| |
Speed |
Fast |
Slow |
| |
Sound |
Quiet & reserved |
Verbal & noisy |
| |
Passion |
Rare heights caused by unknown outside
factors |
Can generate heights of ecstasy at will |
| |
Activity |
Don't stop pumping or you might lose
the mood |
Start, stop, & change at will with
lots of variation |
| |
Arousal Reaction |
Tense |
Relaxation |
|
|
How Do You Do It? |
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| |
Responsibility |
Your lover is responsible for getting
you off |
You're responsible for your own pleasure |
| |
Communication |
Private & closed, keeping anxieties
within |
Lots of feedback, requests, & acknowledgement |
| |
Breathing |
Fast, shallow, & often out of control |
Slow & deep through the mouth to
energize body |
| |
Stimulation |
Doesn't happen without an erection |
Lots of hard & soft stimulators work
great |
| |
Connection |
Use each other's body to get off |
Visualizing heart & energy connection
at all chakras |
You don't get to the Tantric column just by snapping your fingers. It
takes lots of delicious practice, practice, practice.
